READY...Ok...Time to go into...Or...down in....I mean...Up ....Hmmm..
WHERE is the hypnosis ?!
Well...Some time we get stuck using what we use EVERY time...Dont we?
I use Elman induction alot...Handdrop instand induction alot...And the same deepners...The same regression etc.
But if we use our ear's, eyes "just a bit more" then we do now...We can ajust those tools and get SO much more out from our toolbox.
Let me tell you a true story about a client I had in my office this week.
He showed ALL signes for STRONG ressistens during the tests in my pretalk with him.
And becourse I DID these tests, I KNEW before I entered the hypnosis session with him, that he would be a "hard case" and I could take my precautions, and prepair the correct induction.
BUT WHAT IS the correct induction then?
HMM...Well Elman never fails...And then a deepner...And a deepner....(Knowing he MUST give in at some point...) and a deepner...
HOLD IT...No...I really dont like that idea.
Lets go back..Elman..OK
Deepner...Mmm...OK...But a short one...
I really want him DEEP and rock steady deep...Not ALL over the place all the time..Up and down...
But NICE deep.
Well guess what....It doesnt allways happen! You know why?
He dont want to follow my "commands" and go deeper!
Did you ever try higher then? I did...And MANN....WAMM he was as deep in the hypnosis as you can imagine.
What did I learn from this? Well...LOOK at the client..See his breathing...His eyes...And how his skin looks...Learn if he is following your command...Find out why not and alter your stradegy to suite the situation.
You know...When you USE different kind of tools...Learn new tools....And MOST importent...
TRY other things...You got an idea..:GO WITH IT...Try it out...If it works...Improve it until you really are satisfied with it...THEN SHARE IT WITH US ;-)
Hypnosis is SO good..We can do SO MUCH with hypnosis and we can learn SO fast....So dont get stuck using the same tools every day, learn, try and use other tools.
But remember...We do the what we do for our clients...So SOLV the problem for them is our FIRST concern!
What do YOU feel about using new tools..Like Instand inductions in YOUR clinc.
Rene Frederiksen
CH Under NGH
www.hypnoseforalle.dk
Denmark